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Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Buyer Beware
UPDATED QUESTION:
It was suggested by the owner's child that I turn a cheek because the mom may have had an off day. I want to know how many people would turn a cheek at $65 because the owner who just admitted to putting the damaged item back on the shelf... I don't think so. My mom didn't teach me to cower when I was wronged. It is my right to go to Better Business Bureau and letting her know my displeasure and plan because she would not resolve the issue. Sadly the owner relayed to JR's mom in a follow up call today that BBB doesn't care about small things like this. Sad, that is her attitude still. Recommendations good or bad will certainly effect any business. Whether that is from an office agency or word of mouth.

And it's not about the owner as a mom, it's not personal. It was a bad shopping / customer service / professional experience. I did not attack her personally. I simply questioned the business ethic... And as I told the son (I figured out who he was), I have no problem updating every channel used as to saying this has been resolved, once it has... But, I still will never shop at the store or give a recommendation.
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Now the original post:
I warn all future and current shoppers of The Sea Witch in Fairhaven to beware of your purcahses...

JR's mom came up to recent visitly. While walking around the center of town we stopped into a locally owned shop, The Sea Witch. JR's mom purchased a cute beaded bag that she was going to use in St. Thomas at the wedding. When we got home that evening she noticed that there was a bead in the bag. After looking at the purse again she realized that the bead was from the exterior of the purse. Since she was returning to NC and would not have time to return the purse herself, we promised that we would take care of it. When I tried to return it back to the store on Sunday, July 29th seven days after the original purchase the owner informed me that she had a “no cash back” policy and she offered an “in-store” credit. I explained that this was a bag my mother in law had purchased while visiting, and that she had already returned to NC. I also explained that the bag was damaged prior to the purchase as the bead was found inside. When asked for cash back due to the circumstance of it being a defective product and my mother in law having already left and would not be able to use the in-store credit, I was told that is “how things are” these days, referring to store credits only.

I know many of the locally owned stores here in Fairhaven, and I have a mother & sister that both work in retail, and that is not how it works. When I brought this up to the owner, she said had she been there that day she would have given his mother a discount because she (the owner) knew the bag was damaged prior to our purchase. I stood there dumbfounded when she admitted that she was aware that another customer had previously broken purchased the purse while examining how the purse was made. The previous customer disclosed this to the owner. Yet the owner put it back on the shelf at full price with no note of the damage. I have never seen that before in any store. That is manipulative and very bad business. I took the store credit because I was not going to let the owner walk away with $67. However, I will be giving it to someone else to use. When I told her how displeased I was with her store and her business ethic, and that I would be going through appropriate channels to report this. This is when she rudely asked me to leave.

I walked out with an “in-store” credit I will never use and a sour taste in my mouth. This is not the way an honest business owner should treat valued customers or operate a local business. It tarnishes the name of all small business owners. With a policy that enabled her to take advantage of her customer, it may make more want to shop at a chain where at least customer service is better. This experience also tainted a new visitor of how business is done in our little sea side town. I have reported the owner and business to the Better Business Bureau, Fairhaven Tourism, the local newspapers as well as review site covering locally owned businesses.

I also warn all future customers of the Sea Witch, “Caveat Emptor“ (latin for - “let the buyer beware“), maintain a critical eye for defective or otherwise broken products on the shelf and poor treatment by the owner herself.


Wednesday, July 25, 2007
A Wonderful Weekend
A long weekend, that is just what the doctor ordered. Some down time from work. A visit from my mother-in-law to be, a little shopping, my first fitting fitting, the wedding shower, and lots of eating!

No shower, or party for that matter should be without the chocolate fountain! It was industrial size, 5 layers of flowing chocolate. To the side, an assortment of fruits & cooks waiting to be dipped. God love my aunt who dipped a chocolate eclaire in the fountain. Two steps ahead of me!!! My mom, JRs mom, Ali, & Kat threw such a great party. It was perfect! The company was great, and I received some wonderful gifts.

My mom, who kept everything perfect... She threw such a wonderful party. In addition to some great gifts she gave me an old cook book of hers with a note written inside. I have one of the great ones... And in keeping with her tradition of buying lingerie for the bride, I got a few things that JR will surely enjoy.

In addition to the best mom, I have the best mother in law. I, like her, love the presentation. This may explain my addiction to all types of platters. She bought a beautiful one of kind bowl from an artist in NC. She had some pieces that I admired earlier this year. Now I can start my own collection.

From my aunt, my godmother, I received such a thoughtful gift. In the romantic basket that would allow for JR & I to have a romantic evening were the two mugs that she and her husband used while sharing many special memories. My uncle passed about 2 years ago and he was one of the kindest people I had ever met. To have something this special that was part of their relationship means so much. I hope that we are able to continue on with creating special memories like that.

Another very special gift that started the water works were from a very good family friend, who is more like an aunt. She passed down her mother's wine glasses. It was so touching. I'm actually tearing up now. Again, I hope we can add to the stories those wine glasses could tell. If they could talk of course...

This weekend was just wonderful. Spending time with my mom and JR's mom was perfect. Having their support and knowing how close we all are is such a comfort. That strength will help when JR goes back to sea duty next January and as we expand on to our growing families. I really feel blessed to have this!

Then just like that it was back to work. But the wedding is just two short months away and I cannot wait!!! I cannot wait to be JR's Mrs!


Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Internal Screaming
Yesterday started off not so great when the air conditioner started to rattle waking me up from a comfortable sleep. Oh well, it was time to start the day.

I got a work related call on my way to work, followed by three more from the same person in the next 15 minutes. I won't even go into why this was frustrating... I ran from meeting to meeting after I caught up on work from the last week. My last meeting was then interupted by the first caller of the day... Sigh. A conversation would now be needed with my management.

On my way home my iPod decided to freeze up. It would turn on, turn off, play, charge or any of the above. It was stuck 1:23 minutes into Sunday Morning, screen greyed out. I should mention that my iPod is only 3 months old. Instead of throwing it across my car I just placed in the passenger's seat and turned the radio off.

I had the needed conversation with my boss once I got home. Something that will be continued today. Stress is high for all, but needs to be managed now as things get more hectic. After the call ended I went back to finish dinner preparations. That is when I gave up. The top of the blender came off with no problem. However, the bottom part of the pitcher was still attached to the blender. Two open ends, not so good... I bit my lip. I moved the top part to the sink and stared at the blender base now covered with my marinade. I couldn't even scream. I just poured a glass of wine and sat down at the kitched table.



After a few minutes JR offered to go pick up dinner. He commented on how impressed he was with my temper, or control of temper. I cleaned up the mess. I had another glass of wine and threw in the towel. Victory was not mine, but sanity was.


Friday, July 6, 2007
Just the little things are left...
We finally decided on the honeymoon! I think JR was ready to throw me out the window because I kept going back and forth on destinations. I was hoping for Greece, but it was just too problematic. We'd have to come back west to go east... Now we're just going to keep going west to Cabo!

The wedding rings were ordered a couple of weeks ago. Our friends gave us a great idea. They had inscribed each other's rings, but we're not allowed to see / read the ring until the wedding. I have never heard of this. We loved the romantic gesture & surprise factor.

The moms both picked out their dresses yesterday.

The bridal shop said they can alter the dress for the pregnant bridesmaid, i.e. my sister!!! :) I'm going to be an Aunty, again.

The gifts have been ordered for our attendants.

Flights have been booked for our family! We're all flying together... We are even meeting up with JR's parents in Charlotte. The wedding party may take over the whole flight. :)

And my mom called to tell me not to make plans July 21st. I just laughed. She said not only would I have found out, because I don't miss a beat, but JR's mom will be up and staying with us. That would be a hint as well!

Ahhh, this is just getting easier and eaiser!


Thursday, July 5, 2007
The deal
This may sound foolish, but I have made a deal with all things creepy & crawly. If they our outside in the great wide open, I leave them alone. For that is their space.

However, if they are in my home, it's on! I'm not good with any insect of any kind. So far, most have lived up to the deal. But there are a few that try to take up residence in my house. Sadly, the eviction clause doesn't allow for relocation. If they'd just listen...

This deal doesn't include mosquitoes though, not with EEE & West Nile. They are not welcome inside or outside. For that we have the state fogging the yard occassionally, and we also purchased the Mosquito Magnet, which seems to be kick moscquito butt!

So watch out bugs, you are not welcome here...