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Friday, November 28, 2008
*SIGH*
An email was sent out to families of MrE's ship that protestors have scheduled a protest outside the base on the day the ship returns to Norfolk. Flipping idiots. Now, I get the whole freedom of speech aspect. I get that most people do not agree with the war. But do they understand that they had the right to protest because of those soldiers, sailors, airmen that have fought for that right? Do they understand our military members are sent all over God's green Earth because the President & politicians decide that it is to be? Do they understand that families are reuniting after months away from each other? Do they understand that some of our children can read these colorful signs? Do they understand that not all military are returning from a war in Iraq? Some are on humatarian missions. Some are returning from working on strengthening foreign relationships. Flipping idiots!

If you don't agree with policies and/or the way things are done, please feel free to protest at your state & government offices where the politicians are. Write letters to your representatives. Have a politically opinionated blog. Please do not protest where families are reuniting. That is just disgusting.

***UPDATED***

I just finished reading about the group that is scheduling the protest. They have been categorized as a hate group and have been banned from Canada. I was right, flipping idiots!


Thursday, November 27, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
I am thankful for so much. I am especially thankful for... My beautiful, healthy boy. My wonderful, loving husband. My supportive family. My husband's safe return from deployment in 4 days. Our next tour, the east coast for 2 more years! My husband's next ship, it isn't slated to deploy until summer 2010. That is 18 months together!!! 1.5 years!!!

I am just so thankful to have the life I have.

I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving!!!


Monday, November 24, 2008
The Talk
I am up with my parents for one more week before returning *home* to VA, home to my husband. Maybe this is why my father felt the need to have the talk with me while my aunt was there.

dad: I hope you are going to be safe, i.e. taking birth control.
me: Yes, dad.
dad: Because your husband could deploy again soon, and you really should wait...
aunt: Oh, I've already talked to her about having more kids.

I just shook my head. There I was in the middle of the living room having the "safe sex" talk with my father & aunt. At 31. Married.

I guess this just proves "a daughter is a daughter for life..."


Friday, November 21, 2008
On His Way!
JR just left Funchal, Portugal this morning. It was their first and last port visit during the deployment. They will no be crossing the pond to head home!!! We should both be arriving in Virginia on Dec 1st. I will be in Norfolk and he will be in Yorktown. Then Wednesday December 3rd this E! family will all be together for the first time!!!

I honestly cannot contain my excitement!


Friday Fill In


1. The last band I saw live was Jimmy Buffet, Sep 2007.. (I have seen 4 theater productions since then though - Spamalot, Les Miserables, Annie, & A Christmas Carol, plus a Christmas concert / choir.)
2. What I look forward to most on Thanksgiving is a delicious dinner with family without the stress of holiday shopping.
3. My Christmas/holiday shopping is half way done.
4. Thoughts of going to meet MrE on the pier with Bean fill my head.
5. I wish I could wear my old size, damn post-pregnancy weight.
6. Bagpipes make me sad.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to my cousin's 40th birthday, tomorrow my plans include some heading out with my sister and Sunday, I want to finally get together with Beth for breakfast and then head to my *aunt's* house to visit with everyone before I leave!

Off to the office... When I return I will be a stay at home mom.


Thursday, November 20, 2008
A Good Day
I crawled into bed at 2:00am this morning after the last item for the move was in place. Ahh, sweet relief. I was given between a 2 hr window in which the movers would be here, 8-10am. They arrived early. Miracle One. This is when I realized that my father & I would be a little preoccupied with the movers and we had one 9 month old and one 4 month old on hand. Sweet Baby Jesus. I reached for the phone and called my Savior, my SIL Kat. She was awake and at the house in a about 10 minutes. Miracle Two. Since I had already organized all items in three designated areas and placed them in totes or XXL storage bags, the move went very smoothly. They had to repack a very few things, and were out of here in under 4 hrs!!! Miracle Three. This left me the perfect amount of time to clean up Bean, shower & change myself, grab a coffee, and head to Bean's 4 month appt. Early. Miracle Four. (Side note - I am usually running in the door making it just in time or a couple of minutes late. This happens whether I get ready 15 minutes or 2 hrs before. Damn that Murphy!)

As for Bean's appt, Dr.C called him a little "butterball", but a healthy butterball. He is in the 90th percentile for height, weight & head size. Proportionate. We were given the okay for fruits & veggies. He was laughing and smiling for Dr.C. Unfortunately, this was short lived. I really wish MrE was around for these shot appointments. I certainly don't like being associated with that pain. He grimaced. He cried. I cuddled with him. He stopped. He is such a little trooper. If it were only this easy every time. Today, I would have given him a lollipop if he were older, but he's not. So, I guess I'll have the treat instead. **grinning**

All of this was topped off with Bean rolling over on his own for the first time. He has been close the last few days, but just as he was almost over he would roll to the other side, hold, and repeat the process. I know he was thinking, mom why the hayride would I go on my belly? I hate being on my belly! So it was a very productive day here!

Tomorrow I am off to the office. One last time. Again. But tonight I will relax. There is no more to pack, just laundry to do. G-Pa is in the chair with Zilla & Bean singing Row, Row, Row Your Boat. So this mama is going to enjoy a glass of wine, ahem, her treat.

Eleven more days to enjoy with the family before heading home with MrE.


Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Last Day at Work
Today I took a break from packing to go into work one last time, or so I thought. There was a mini-going away party with cake and some of my friends from work. I brought Bean in for one last visit and he was on his best behavoir. He smiled. He laughed. He ate. He slept. There were some teary eyed moments. My friends gave me a beautiful Irish knot necklace. I love it!!! Nice things were said, hugs were given, and after the chit-chat there wasn't enough time to turn in company owned property. So I'm going back. One more time... Well not one more time really, but at least for now. I could really see myself going back there when we return to MA or if we end up in CA. Who knows? I do know that I have met friends there that will last.

As for tomorrow, the movers will be here bright & early!!! Another day closer.


Monday, November 17, 2008
Winding Down
I am living in a war zone. Seriously. Disorganized. Messy. Chaos. These are all words that come to mind. There are boxes, tupperware bins & XXL storage bags with items that are to survive this move. Other items have been sent to the reserves. No need to bring any baby stuff that Bean has grown out of. Said items will stay in MA until the next boy in the family is born. Just like outdated ships are sold off to other countries, some items have been set aside for the local second hand store. Then of course there are the casualties of war. This includes anything that has served its purpose and no longer has any life left in it.

This is all unstrategically placed throughout the house. I just hope that the gods of moving & gods of childcare do not plot for my demise over the next two nights. Navigating in darkness to my son's crib may be a mission where injuries are sustained. My original plan is a little off and this is not completely due to procrastination. At least this viral thing went around before the drive to VA. With any luck, I will be finished packing tomorrow night. Items will be organized and in two general areas for the movers, who will be here Thursday. Then it will be suitcase living until Dec 2nd. At least it will be minimal disorganization.

So, when MrE was last with us, I was 36 weeks pregnant and so emotional that I cried. And cried. And cried. The crying debachle was before he even left. Surprisingly, there weren't as many tears once he left. Still a few, just not as many. Being in MA with family was so comforting. I will truly miss it here. Six months flew by! Having my parents, my sister & her family, my brother & his wife be part of my journey into motherhood was so special. I cannot begin to thank them for all of their help & support these last 5 months with Bean. That being said, I am so very excited to see my husband. I am even more excited to have our new family together.

And I can't lie, I'm looking forward to having things neat & orderly again! Can we chant, no more boxes!!! That is unless the USN desides to move us come July...


Saturday, November 15, 2008
Cutie Patutie


Don't let the carseat & smile fool you, he's a tough boy.


Casablanca, Morocco

Hey all!!

We arrived in Casablanca, Morocco on Tuesday morning. This was our last “working port” of the deployment. We’ve conducted a significant amount of training here so far. Two Firefighting drills, medical training and two live boardings. Additionally, we had a reception on the flight deck, painted 16 rooms in a local school, conducted 3 days of ship tours and had several planning meetings for an u/w exercise. All in all, a very busy week.

However, I did get a chance to head out and take a tour of the Hassan II Mosque. The Hassan II is the 3rd largest Mosque in the world. We got a private tour with a guide that spoke English between prayer times. Muslims are required to pray 5 times a day. 2 times in the morning, once in the morning, and twice in the evening (all based on sunrise/sunset). The Mosque was absolutely beautiful! It had the largest tower of any Mosque in the world at over 200 meters high and at sunset, a green light emanates from the top window in the direction of Mecca. It was built in 1987-93, and they constructed it around the clock, 24/7 for 6 years, all told, 50 million man hours were expended. The Mosque holds 25,000 people inside (20K men on the bottom floor, and 5K women in the balconies on the side). Another 80K can pray on the grounds surrounding the Mosque. Before prayers, Muslims are required to “wash” their mouth, nose, ears, face, hair, elbows and feet. In the basement of the Mosque there are two “washing” facilities. One was in the Style of the Turkish bath. Where there were steam baths and a pool. The other had fountains that prayer goers can used to “rinse” with. Additionally, when entering the Mosque, one has to remove their shoes. They get taken to the exit where you pick them up when you leave.

Inside the great hall, the Mosque was absolutely enormous! I’m positive the whole ship could have fit inside w/ no problems. The ceiling was nearly 60 meters high and could be opened to let air in and ventilate. There was no A/C, so during the summer months you can imagine how hot it might get w/ 25,000 people inside. The ceiling was a made of cedar with ornamental carvings and colorful paint. The walls were made of granite and ornamental plaster. The floors were made of marble and chandeliers were from Italy. With the exception of the chandeliers, all material used to construct the Mosque, all came from Morocco.

Tuesday night, I got to go out to the Seaman’s Institute Center. It was a guarded safe house for international mariners and foreign Navies. There was a bar, tv’s, free wifi, and good American food there. Everyone had a good time. One of the guys in the wardroom had his birthday party there. Last night, I went out w/ Joe and the XO. We went to the Hyatt hotel and had some drinks at the hotel bar. There was live Jazz and the Saxophone player there from Kentucky…small world. Then we went to a Moroccan restaurant there too. The food there was amazing! Probably the best food I’ve had on deployment. We had Kous Kous, Chicken Taboli, and Roasted Lamb. All in all, we had a good night.

Tonight I’m heading to the Consulate General Quarters for an American BBQ and some drinks. We’ll probably mingle w/ the foreign service officers, then head out to the Seaman’s Center. Should be a good time.

Our next port visit is our last of the deployment. We’re under 3 weeks till home now, and I couldn’t be more excited to be heading home. Life will definitely different when I return. When I left Azzy was still pregnant, and we were travelling back & forth between two separate states. Now I’ll return to Norfolk to greet my beautiful wife, handsome son and all the rest of the family!! I cannot wait to be home!!

-J.R.


Best Buddies


I have a feeling that there will be some seperation issues between these two little boys... Mon - Fri and some part of the weekend they are together. Zilla is usually crawling towards Bean. He gives him kisses, pats him when Bean is crying, and even holds his hand when they are watching their baby show. Of course some pats are a little tough and must be quickly intercepted. Sometimes Bean is in Zilla's direct path and becomes a mere speed bump. Sometimes there is the theft of the coveted binky. Most of the time Bean instantly smiles when he sees Zilly. Then again, he sometimes looks at me for protection.

Whenever our time in the Navy ends, be it 2 years or 12, we plan to settle back here in MA. Bean and Zilla will be 2 or 12. They will be in the same grade and potentially at the same school. Little buddies. It really is great having them so close together in age. Until that comes Zilla will be missed greatly by Bean.


Friday, November 14, 2008
Checking In
So the hubby is back in communication, yey!!! During a recent firmware upgrade on their sat phone all communcation connectivity crashed. No email. No phone. No connection with the outside world. Lovely! Being in the IT field, I have seen my share of failed upgrades. Problem was fixed yesterday and the ship has rejoined the technology age.

They are currently in Casablanca. The last couple of ports did not leave time for picture taking. So no reports, no pictures, no exciting trips... He did go on a tour of a "beautiful" mosque today & took a lot of pictures. An update will be coming soon! After this there is one more stop before making the trip back home.

In less approximately 3 weeks JR, Connor and myself will finally be together!!!


Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Home Sweet Home
Yey, we have a home!!! We were just waiting on the contract before all was 100%. We lucked out finding a home on Chesapeake Bay. I grew up on the ocean. I have lived away from the ocean before, but it is where I prefer to be as does MrE. So we are quite happy. Our home is a 3 Bed, 2 Bath. Room for visitors! So come on a tour...

All L-R
1st Row: Front Door, hallway, back of the house
2nd Row: Living room, kitchen, dining area
3rd Row: Master bath, master bedroom, Bean's bath
4th Row: Deck, our view, another view



We're on the marina and just down the road from the beach. There is a neighborhood pool. The best part, I'll be there in 3 short weeks with Bean and MrE!!!



My Little Man

I can't get over how big he is getting or how much it looks like he should go help GPa build something in the garage. I just love him!!!


Happy Veterans Day!!!


This morning we made an early dash to the high school for a spot at the end of the Veterans Day parade route. It is important for us to note when asking my brother for the time of the parade we specify the time for spectators (us) not those marching in the parade (him). So we were an hour early, for once! The parade was such a great tribute. There were veterans past & present, police officers, fire fighters... A nice group of those who give selflessly. The raising of the flag was timed with a BlackHawk flyover, very touching for this Navy wife - Air Force veteran.



I do not have pictures of all family & friends who serve, but here are some. Thank you for your sacrifice, and to the families at home because it is a sacrifice to you as well!







And thank you to Liz for the photo collage idea!!!


Sunday, November 9, 2008
Quarantined
We've been hiding here on Whisper Ln. A bit of a cold has passed from me to my son to my nephew to the grandparents and so on. I'm not sure who started this whole mess, but a mess it was. We are feeling human today and the sun is out.



We did manage to dress up on Halloween and visit some family! All of the boys were adorable. I imagine this will only last a few short years. Then there will be no more lion, turkey, bee or monkey costumes. They will be heros, monsters, and the like.





We're also getting ready for our move, 22 days away! The movers will be here tomorrow to inspect what they will have to pack & ship later on in the month. Other than that, we're heading out to enjoy some fresh air & sun. Bean is also letting me know time for lunch. Gotta run!











Saturday, November 1, 2008
Lome, Togo
Hello family,

Sorry this email is about two weeks late…

Last week we pulled into Lome, Togo for our last Africa Partnership Station port visit. We were there from Monday to Thursday. This was supposed to be one of our most ambitious port visits with receptions, office calls, training and tours. However, the weather and current teamed up to make it one of our most difficult visits to date. The pier we pulled into was unprotected from the current that flowed into the harbor from the sea. While mooring to the pier, we had difficulty staying moored alongside the pier. Due to the current, the ship would surge ahead as much as 15’ as we were tied up. The undue stress this put on our mooring lines ended up parting several of them. It’s not good to be underway next the to pier, to say the least. So, we got u/w and went to see to anchorage where our plan was ride out the tide on the hook until harbor security could secure another pier for us to pull back into.

So after hanging around on the hook for a couple hours, we pulled back into port to a different pier with the hopes that we’d be more protected from the current. By the time we were moored, it was nearly 6pm and we had an official dinner w/ the Embassy personnel. I went out to dinner at a nice Lebonese restaurant w/ the CO/XO, Command Senior Chief and a few other sailors. We had a wonderful meal, and I even got to try sheep brains!!!! Looked and tasted just like scrambled eggs…but evidently, that was a delicacy there.

However, by the time we got back to the ship, a couple other mooring lines were fraying and by midnight we’d parted the frayed lines. So, there I was, comfy in my rack, getting some well needed rest, when at midnight, I hear, “NOW MAN YOUR SEA AND ANCHOR STATIONS, THE SHIP EXPECTS TO GET U/W IN 20 MINS”…we had to get u/w again. After manning up to get u/w, we went to sea about 2 miles and dropped the hook again. After a long day, we spent a long night getting the ship safely to sea. By the time we were anchored, it was 2am. But this is where the fun really started.

Although, being on the hook is safer for the ship (no inadvertent u/w’s with half the crew on liberty), the current at anchor was just as bad. For three days and nights, we took consistent 25 deg rolls. It was like working on a roller coaster for half a week. As you transitted the ship, you periodically walked on the walls to get from point A to B. And if you think working was difficult, try sleeping when the ship was actively trying to roll you out of your bed. Luckily, I have a middle rack, about 4 feet off the ground, so it wasn’t too bad, but the poor suckers in top racks had to sleep w/ their heavy seas straps on (these are straps that prevent you from rolling out of bed in the middle of the night. To top it all off, we were having A/C probs through most of the week, so the ship was a muggy 85 degs for 4 days, on top of the constant rolls.

We were supposed to take nearly 100K gals of fuel and receive a bunch of parts while pierside. However, since we were now at sea, there were no barges to bring the fuel to us, and bringing boats full of parts out to us was also problematic. We did our best to maintain the schedule of tours, office calls and receptions, but many events were cancelled. Bringing a liberty launch (a boat that carries people back and forth from anchorage) alongside was problematic at best. We have an accommodation ladder that we lower on the side of the ship…it’s a 30’ set of stairs that go down right to the water’s edge. However, during heaving rolls, the bottom of the ladder goes from 10’ above the water, to being plunged down into it, with every crest and trough of a wave. Try loading civilians, or drunk sailors from that to a boat and tell me it’s safe. After several attempts to carry on tours, and getting our sports teams and trainers back and forth, we decided it was a futile effort, and secured all further boats back and forth. Needless to say, it was a long 4 days in Togo, and I didn’t get to go ashore. Sorry, that I don’t have any pics either.

-J.R.